
We don't mind friendly banter, and in other Turkish resorts have never felt threatened or overly hassled by restaurants/bars. Is there a BIG problem with hassle in this hotel? If so, is the bar leased out or is it run by the hotel owner?
The reason I ask is this - if we have to walk through the bar every night to go out, and if we are overly hassled each time, we are likely to dig our heels in and refuse to drink/eat there out of principle (I'm all for banter - but my holiday's not going to be spoiled by anything more aggressive). This, I'm sure, will make us look extremely aloof and unfriendly, therefore if the hotel owner and bar staff are one in the same we'll end up upsetting the hotel staff. If this is the case we'd be better off trying to change our holiday accommodation. If the hotel and bar staff are completely separate, I can live with upsetting the bar staff

On the other hand, are the reviews I've read an unfair summary of the situation. The two reviewers visited this summer (May and July).
Here's a link to the reviews:
http://www.holiday-truth.com/holiday_truths/hotel_reviews/1026/Elif%20Hotel/