My take on things probably goes over a lot of whats been said already, but as 37 year old who has been visiting
Icmeler since my early 20's I'm certainly not in my "Winter Years" as has been mentioned here previously.
I have always thought of Icmeler as the quiet little sibling to Marmaris, hence why out of 15 years of annual holidays, I have stayed in
Marmaris once (my second visit to Turkey) and vowed never again. Icmeler always had the charm that was lacking in it's elder sibling. In the earlier years, It always felt more civilised, but since around 2010 I thought the place started to gear more towards the typical Brit tourist, so I think some of the changes are for the better, the music ban is good. If you want blaring music til 2/3/4am then Marmaris is a short drive away. Also the illegal buildings, whilst added some quirk some where a bit unsightly. I also think the lack of entertainment is silly, yes most of it was tired and the same old shtick, but that was Icmeler, and as long as it was turned off at midnight I don't see the problem.
I think removing the canal stalls was a bad Idea, as is the lack of the weekly market. Although most of what was sold was utter tat, it was still part of the holiday experience.
I think the media has a part to play also, I was a big fan of Turkey, but last year after Tunisia, and the medias spin on Turkey, I gave it a miss. I then realised late last year that I was missing out on something I love and listening to other peoples opinions, hence why we are coming back this year in May.