Hi, I have dragged my mum and auntie along a few times to both Eastenders & Pleasure. Although I prefer pleasure, they prefer Eastenders as they feel there is a more varied age group in and so don't feel so out of place.
They are both in their fifties!
It is very safe but obviously don't let your guard down too much. You wouldn't leave your drink unattended in a nightclub in England so don't do it in Turkey, just to be on the safe side. As someone else has mentioned, you will recognise the staff from the restaurants around
Icmeler in the clubs enjoying the little free time they get!
It's good fun. My mum would never dream of going to a night club in England (and I wouldn't be seen dead wit her in one ha) but in eastenders there is a more varied age group and relaxed atmosphere.