Holiday Romances?

[Doz]

An old romantic at heart I was wondering if anyone had any holiday romance tales from Icmeler???

[browneyed2005]

hey doz

i had a holiday romance going back a few years ago. a group of use girls went to icmeler, all single and wanting to have fun. i had been before but thought id take friends to show how great icmeler was. anyway met this guy the year before and met up with him again that year, he was lovely! the only reason i went with him at first was to make another turkish guy jealous and ended up falling for him!
did keep in touch for a while until got a boyfriend back home (who is turkish) so dont keep in touch anymore. would love to go back just to bump into him though, not sure what id do if seen him though!!

anyone else had a holiday romance?

[xSaLsAx]

yeh i ad an holiday romance!
Me + my family stayed in Avlu 1 apartments in icmeler July 2004 and i met a let called ************. Only stayed a week but got to know him really well. My family all really liked him too!! was absolutly heartbroken when i had to leave! we swapped numbers + was constantly texing and ringin each other when i got back home. my uncle and auntie was still there for another week so wen they came home he had given them a gift for me. (really nice gold and white gold ring-not engagement or anything!!!) people tell you stories bout turkish people and as usual i didnt want to kno. anyways, afta spending sooooo much credit, i met my fella who im stil with now because i realised how could it have workd him being so far away, me stil a student (no money) and him not being able to come visit me!!
he still texts my mum every now and then always asks how we are and when were coming to visit. anyways, my mums just got back from icmeler and she said she was going to say hello to him but he got confused sending her a text!! - he was ment to send a text to a diffrent lass saying sorri for not meeting her the night before and he ended up sending it 2 my mum!!! she came hme saturday and he had the cheek to say wen is she coming to say hi!! haha

2years of blagging my mum to come over, textin her all the time and ringin her in the middle of the night and it jus goes to show he was only after 1 thing!!! - sooo girlies, dont be fooled by their good looks and charm!!!!
by the way, anyone met him, know him or have any pics of him? thank u!!!

[Colette]

Juat a nice note, the stories are ok but can we not name names of people or bars, this is for everyones sake concerned, I am sure I don't need to go into the reasons why

Salsa can you not use text style language please ie U = you or stil or ringin etc it makes it very difficult for some people to read

Cheers

Col

[browneyed2005]

nice to hear your story salsa we all have our opinons but how ever good or bad your relationship has turned out with a turkish man dont be put off by them.

turkish guys are not as bad as some people think. yeah ok get the few men after one thing but some of them are actually genuine and really great people.

when go away and have a holiday romance its just like a fling, dont actually expect them to put there life on hold just to wait for to come back. there bound to meet other girls and move on.

my boyfriend is turkish (lives in england) and he is amazing and would never cheat. we have been together 2 years and we think the world of eachother.

so although everyone is intitled to there opinon please dont think all turkish guys are sleazy and after one thing, there not!!!!

would love to hear other peoples stories

[Fanny]

My daughter meet a chap in Icmeler last year and he treated her with so much respect - nice change from what we see back at home
They kept in touch for quite a while, but they've agreed to stay friends. English chaps could learn a thing or two from him!!

[skilly]

I think blokes are the same the world over! There are good & bad in every nationality, we met a young Turkish lad last year and he was showing us texts he was getting from different girls all week, he said he was engaged to a girl from England but was still seeing different girls every fortnight, so I would warn young girls going to Turkey please don't be niave ( have I spelt it right?), have fun but be careful don't wear your heart on your sleeve!

[Fanny]

True enough Skilly

[xSaLsAx]

sorry just in a bad mood thinking about it!!! i know theyre not all like that but i have a few friends living with turkish blokes and from what ive seen, its not nice!! fair enough, some of them are probably the nicest people in the world but its a shame my friends have never actually met nice ones!!! think they need to take a trip over there and find one!!

[JT]

Don't let this topic get carried off on a tangent and start talking about how good or bad Turkish boys are otherwise I will delete the whole topic.

I will not allow this forum to be used like others are for gossiping about Turkish boys and the relationships that they are involved or not involved in.

[browneyed2005]

i agree with what say 'admin'
its nice to have a topic about holiday romances.
we dont want to be removed because of bad experiences. i would love to hear about some really positive relationships anybody has had with turkish guys.
personally i think turkish men are lovely and very honest (not just saying that because my boyfriend is turkish)
so come on lets here about how got swept off your feet whether your still together or not.

[katie]

i just got back from icmeler and it was the greatest holiday i have ever had. i met this guy that worked in a bar we went out a couple of times and had an amazing two weeks, it really helped me learn that there is alot nicer guys about than the ones i have been dating! he was sweet, kind and honest and i was heart broken that i had to leave. we had to go really early in the morning for our plane so the nite before we swaped numbers etc. and he said he would be at the bar in the morning so i could come and say bye he said he would stay up all nite to make sure he was there! i found this quite hard to believe but when i went back in the morning he was there, he looked shattered, he asked me to stay with him which really broke my heart because i really did fall for the guy! we still keep in touch by text and i am going back at the end of august!

[Fanny]

Awww that's lovely Katie
HOpe you have just as good a time in August


We met a really nice chap in 2004, started seeing my eldest daughter july 2005 and we went again in Sept 05. He treated her beautifully, but she's 18 and life has a lot to offer her, so she's not longer in touch with him - though he's still in touch with the rest of us. Really nice lad

[juneflo]

Yes, let's be fair - relationships have their ups and downs and there's good and not so good in all of us - or perhaps not so right for all of us! My daughter fell head over heels last year for a lovely man, he was a teacher and worked during the summer for his family in a bar. She went back out 4 weeks later and it was still great. It all went wrong when she found out a few things (keeping this nondescript to avoid exposing anymore about him) - needless to say I didn't think he was such a lovely man then - but that's no different to the men she's met before and here. She met some great friends through him who she keeps in contact with and visits. Holiday romance or more we'll never know, what I do know is she felt great for a while, it did wonders for her confidence, she had some lovely holidays and has put it down to experience - just not the right man for her that time. Has she said never again? Of course not, that was a man not a nation!