Mary, it depends on what you like whether you should try different places in Turkey.
Icmeler is a place we choose because we have 2 small children who need entertainment and other kids. My Hubby and i preferred much smaller, more traditional resorts until the little ones came along. If you want a TRUE taste of Turkey check out Patara it is the smallest village you could imagine, literally 9 or 10 shops and restaurants, but the ambience and beach are to die for. I will return one day

ps also been to Olu Deniz (hated it but that was bc (before children) and Hisaronu and Fethiye and Kalkan. You and Phil would prob like Kalkan but it's proper hilly
