bad news !

[acko338]

Use the holiday as a therapeutic rest , and try to think that you had decided to not go if the lady had lived longer.

Have a toast to her memory while out there and think of happy times you shared together.

It may not be a traditional holiday from your point of view, but please use the time to re-charge your undoubted spent batteries.

[kez&sue]

hi all i want to thank everyone who has posted such kind words and its comforting to know that other people have gone through the same thing,we now intend to go away to beautiful icmeler to relax recharge and have a very very good holiday sorry for all the doom and gloom of this post when you are all looking forward to a happy holiday but honestly all the kind words of support and advice have helped myself and sue alot so thankyou all again and happy holidays to all!